How to Manifest a Relationship With a Specific Person

By Mia Fox
By Mia Fox

Bestselling Manifestation Book Author of 'Become the CEO of Your Dream Life'

Manifesting love with a specific person is a topic many of the women in my Law of Attraction community are interested in. And since I manifested my husband (including my dream wedding and honeymoon) with the help of a vision board, I often get asked questions about how to manifest the dream partner or if you can manifesting a specific person you want.

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One question I hear very often: Can you manifest a specific partner or even manifest your ex back? In short: Unfortunately, it is not possible to manifest a relationship with a specific person if this person is not in the same vibrational alignment.

But is it really NOT possible to manifest a specific person or an Ex back? Well, it does really depends… read on, and I tell you more.

Manifesting a Specific Person (Should You Even Try?)

Believe me; I know very well what it’s like to be unhappily in love; the last thing you want to hear in this situation is the fact that you can’t manifest someone to fall in love with you.

But I’m honest and only give you no BS manifesting advice here!

So can the law of attraction attract a specific person just because that’s your desire? The answer is, no, only like attracts like. 

That’s what the universal law of attraction stands for.

Sure, with the Law of Attraction, you can basically manifest anything you want, but only as long as no other person gets harmed or that you would have to influence their will.

So let me ask you a question, do you REALLY want to have a relationship with someone who doesn’t love you?

Probably not, right?

Or manifesting an ex back? (There is most probably a good reason that you are not together anymore…)

Think twice before trying to manifest a specific person (back) into your life.

However, if this other person is the perfect match for you and it’s also his/her desire to be with you, then, of course, go on and manifest a wonderful relationship.

Or start by using the power of the Law of Attraction to finally ask him or her out for a date.

Visualization is a great tool for attracting love.

In my guide on how to manifest love and the partner of your dreams, I will give you all the ins and outs of manifesting the perfect partner for you.

And I’m living proof that it works!

Is It Bad to Manifest a Specific Person?

As mentioned before, it really depends on the person you are trying to manifest. If it’s someone who has hurt you in the past, then no, it may not be a good idea.

Manifesting someone specific that is not “meant to be with you” might have an adverse effect and cause your manifestation to backfire!

However, if this person is someone who inspires or motivates you and a person that truly aligns with your values, then yes- go ahead and try to manifest a relationship with this person.

But again, the law of attraction is based on reciprocity. And the same is true for love.

So the answer is: It’s not bad to manifest a specific person; it’s just bad to manifest the wrong specific person.

And the only way to find it out is by doing some inner work (journaling, meditation, visualization are great manifesting tools for this) and taking some action. And maybe even some risk.

Just always keep asking yourself: does this align with what I truly desire and my values?

How I Manifested the Partner of My Dreams

I turned 30. and was about to give up on relationships, after my heart got broken for the zillions time. Then I finally had this epiphany that helped me to unlock the power of the Law of Attraction.

Long story short, I said YES! to my wonderful husband in a Vegas wedding chapel and was off to my dream honeymoon in Hawaii.

If you want to get the long version of the story, including all my tips on what I changed to finally make manifestation work for me, then you should grab your copy of my LoA book.

That’s where I give you a bulletproof plan to manifest everything you want (the things you truly want, like a partner that loves you!)

For now, let me give you some tips on how to manifest a happy relationship; you can implement today.

How Do You Manifest Your Crush to Like You Back?

So how do you manifest a specific person to fall in love with you when you truly believe that this person is right for you?

First: Make sure they are single and available! If they’re already taken, then be careful with your actions.

I don’t tell you not to invest your energy into your wish to manifest this specific person, but the universe will not have your back if you try to force yourself into a well-functioning relationship.

That said, just before I manifested Tom, my hubby, he and I were both still in a relationship. However, both of us unhappy.

I also didn’t focus on him as a specific person, but on the kind of partner and relationship, I wanted.

Second: Work on YOURSELF.

You can’t manipulate people or make them love you. Not even with the power of the law of attraction.

It’s about programming your subconscious mind so that you are open to give and receive love and so that you have eliminated blocks that may prevent you from having a good relationship.

The law of attraction is not a magic trick that makes a specific person fall in love with you.

If you want to manifest a specific person to fall in love with, you start with yourself. Self-love is an important point and will send the right vibrations to the universe (your subconscious mind.)

The Law of Attraction For Manifesting Love Tips

When you want to manifest love or your dream partner, it is important to be happy and in alignment with yourself first.

Once you are clear with yourself and have identified and worked on your manifesting blocks, you can ask yourself what exactly you want in a relationship.

Describe your partner as specific as possible, but it is also ok if you don’t know every detail.

For example, when I “ordered” my husband Tom, I had no specific idea of how he should look like. I just worked more with symbolic pictures.

For instance, I had glued a photo of Johnny Cash and June Carter to my vision board as a symbol for the deep bond they had until they died.

Sure my husband in the making was also allowed to be that handsome, tall, dark-haired man, but it was more about the emotion I wanted to get out of the relationship.


“Manifesting is ALL about emotional triggers”


And yes, I had to be patient and even had two unhappy relationships before I met Tom, but between the two of us, I would wait for Tom any time again.

And well, it turned out that the perfect partner for me, a spouse who gives me the feeling of butterflies in my tummy every day, was actually tall and dark-haired. 


Save Your Relationship with the Law of Attraction

If you want to use the Law of Attraction to save a relationship, just remember that the same rules apply here.

Your partner must be just as willing to stay in this relationship or get back together, as you are.

The LoA is not magic, but sometimes magical things can happen.

So don’t give up, if things don’t work the way you hoped, there is always something more awesome waiting for you.

Sometimes we just believe that a relationship with a specific person is the right thing for us. Reflecting a bit deeper, and do some personal development work, can maybe bring out some important insights.

I believe that working on your manifesting blocks is the most important part of the process, that’s what I teach in my book “Become the CEO of Your Dream Life.”

It’s all about YOU gaining control over your manifestations. And yes, also about manifesting love.

If you want to learn more about this, and how I manifested love and my dream husband,  grab your copy of my bestselling manifesting book here.

In this book, I don’t only share my story; this is also the blueprint that helped hundreds of thousands of women to make their vision boards come true. And some of them, even manifested a specific person!

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Mia Fox is a bestselling author, founder & CEO of the SelfMadeLadies Community. After a decade as an NLP coach, helping women to overcome their abundance blocks and turning big dreams into reality, she started her manifestation blog in 2018. Since then, she has helped millions of readers with her practical manifesting tips, and wrote her bestselling manifestation book “Become the CEO of Your Dream Life,” which turned into an award-winning transformational program, teaching students in over 222 countries worldwide how they can transform their lives with self-coaching. Read more about Mia Fox here.

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