How To Manifest Love And The Partner Of Your Dreams
By Mia Fox
Mindset & Manifestation Coach, Author and Founder of the SelfMadeLadies Community
Yes, I manifested my husband. I manifested my soulmate. So, of course, I often hear the question: how can you manifest love into your life with the Law of Attraction. That's why I decided to come up with this post today, on how to manifest love and the partner of your dreams, to answer all your questions about attracting your dream partner with the LoA.
When I started to work more intensively with the Law of Attraction and the process of manifesting, about ten years ago, I had a big question besides the manifestation of money, business success and more travel opportunities: how to manifest a husband.
I had just turned 30, and another relationship ended in drama. I was unhappy and also a bit desperate, somehow the right one had to come finally! Right?
But after reading the book "the Secret," I was really confident that manifesting love can't be that difficult.
At that time, I had no idea that this step would take three years. But don't worry, I will also show you how to manifest love fast. I learned some tricks over the years, and I'm going to share them with you.
I have to admit, I had very misunderstood the Law of Attraction back then, and it took me a long time to really understand what it was all about and to finally crack the manifestation code, so to say.
Want to know how? Then read here:
But for now, back to love! ♥
How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams With the Law of Attraction
So how exactly do you attract your dream husband with the Law of Attraction? Or your dream wife?
Manifesting your dream partner follows the same principle as everything else you want to manifest into your life.
The best way is to follow my step by step guide here. Or even better, sign up for the next round of my Free Manifestation Challenge here!
Here you learn step by step how to manifest everything you want. But in this post, I'll give you some more specific tips for manifesting the most wonderful thing in the world, love!
I had my dream man in the making, glued on my Vision Board. And this helped me a lot with the first step of manifesting:
Order or Ask for what you want!
To activate the Law of Attraction, it is important to tell your subconscious mind exactly what you want.
This doesn't mean that you need to know the exact hair color, size, and favorite food, etc. of your dream partner in the making.
Specific is often misunderstood and stresses out most people that attempt to manifest their desires. They believe that you have to decide on things where you are still uncertain about.
But it doesn't work that way, and that's not how I manifested my soulmate!
For example, I had a picture of June Carter and Johnny Cash on my vision board. They symbolized for me the feelings I wanted to get out of a relationship, the strong bond to the end of a long life.
And you know what, it still worked!
I manifested my husband and with him my dream wedding in Vegas and my dream honeymoon in Hawaii.
Get Ready for Your Dream Partner
2. step is Expect / Believe
Or in other words, overcome your abundance blocks and get ready to receive (the 3rd step of the manifestation).
This step is very important, and in my advanced manifesting course, I have a whole module covering only the topic of abundance blocks.
For an overview of these blocks, I recommend you to read this article here:
But if you want to manifest love and your dream partner, then there is one major block you have to solve first.
You have to make room in your life for your new partner.
And I'm not talking about clearing out half of your wardrobe.
If this helps you to change your mindset from "being single" to "living in a happy relationship," then go ahead, but there may be a lot of deeper sitting blocks than a space problem in your apartment that you should work on first.
In my manifesting course, I do a mind, body, life assessment with my students where they examine all areas of their lives to find out what could prevent them from manifesting success and what they still have to work on.
But here as a little hint, a few questions you can ask if you want to manifest your dream partner:
- Do I have an ex-partner whom I should forgive (or may still have feelings for)?
- Am I really ready for a relationship, or did I want to do things as a single (travel the world, work for charity, have a flat share with my best friend)
- Am I at a point in my life where I am truly happy with myself?
The last point was my big abundance block when I tried to attract my dream husband, and quite certainly the reason that it took a whole four years between "order my dream man" and 1st date.
And meanwhile, I had an affair that ended in a lot of drama and a very toxic relationship.
Which brings me to the next point. Be patient!
How Fast Can You Manifest Love
Basically, the universe loves speed. But unfortunately we humans are not always where we should be to manifest what we want.
You see, to attract my dream man it took me three years, but between us, it was really worth waiting!
However, I am convinced that if I had known so much about manifesting with the Law of Attraction back then as I do today, I would probably not have had to wait three years for my dream partner to arrive.
Today I manifest most things much faster!
To speed up your manifesting success, whether you want to manifest love or anything else, here are some tips:
But the important thing is to understand that the 3. step in manifesting, is the most important part of the Law of Attraction.
It's all about taking (inspired) action!
The Law of Attraction works in such a way that you signal to your subconscious mind what you really want.
You then concentrate on this specific outcome, act as if your dream had already come true. You can do this, for example, with the help of a particular Law of Attraction tool.
I had mainly used my vision board at that time, I manifested my husband, Tom.
And at the end, when your subconscious mind gives you signals, you react to them.
In the manifestation process, we call this inspired action, and here in this article, you can learn more about it:
And this action is key to your success, also when you want to manifest love. It is important to be constantly aware of opportunities and don't miss out on the signs of the universe!
And next time your mother wants to fix you up with the son of her friend from the book club, say yes to a blind date. What can you lose except maybe a few hours?
Who knows, maybe you are the next Bridget Jones and find your Mr. Darcy?
How to Manifest a Relationship with a Specific Person
I am often asked if one can manifest a specific partner. And yes you can manifest a specific person, but only if you're also the ideal partner for that other person.
Manifesting does not work to harm anyone else by forcing or manipulating them. And I don't think that should be your goal either, I mean would you really want a relationship with a partner you're not the ideal woman for?
Such a partner would never be happy with you and would certainly treat you in a way you would not be pleased with yourself.
So if a partner cheats on you, wants to get separated and doesn't see any hope in your relationship. Or someone just doesn't want to be with you right from the beginning; it might be time to accept that and move on.
Because that brings us back to the first point of this post about how to manifest love and attract the partner of your dreams; you need to become ready for your new love!
About the Author
Mia Fox is a trained NLP & Mindset Coach with nearly a decade of experience. After finally finding the secret behind "The Secret," she changed her money mindset and manifested her dream life. Since then, it is her big passion to help women around the world to do the same. She is the founder behind the Self Made Ladies Community & Blog and the author of "Become the CEO of Your Dream Life", teaching her advanced manifesting formula, where she gives women a practical no BS approach to the Law of Attraction and Manifestation.
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