I manifested my husband. I manifested my true soulmate. That’s why I get often asked: how can you manifest love with the law of attraction, in our community. And why I decided to write this post today, and answering all your question around love manifestations, so that you can start attracting your dream partner right away. Are you ready?
Here’s how it works in short: To manifest love, a partner, or even a husband and soul-mate for life, you need to follow the 3-step manifesting process:
1. Get clear on the love you want. That’s less about things like the looks for your dream person but more about becoming specific about the type of relationship you want.
2. Get ready for your new partner. You must clear out old beliefs and make space for your soulmate to manifest.
3. Take action & attract love. That’s the most important step and often gets overlooked!
But let’s have a look at all three steps in more detail. Read on to learn more about manifesting love and the partner of your dreams.
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How I Manifested My Husband (And So Can You)
When I started to work more intensively with the universal laws and learned how to manifest (that was more than ten years ago, and long before I wrote my bestselling manifestation book), I had ONE big question:
How can I finally manifest a husband?
At the time, I had just turned 30, and another relationship had just ended in drama. I was unhappy and also a bit desperate.
But I still had some hope left, that my Mr. Right had to come somewhen…
I nearly gave up on my (nonexistent) love life altogether, but after finally understanding what is really important when you want to manifest successfully, I met my soulmate and now husband, Tom.
But it took me three long years from adding a picture of my “future life partner” on my vision board to finally manifest him in real life. And with him, I manifested my dream wedding in Vegas and my dream honeymoon in Hawaii. (Both were at the time on my vision board).
And while it was worth every minute of the wait, I don’t want that you have to wait that long for your big love to manifest.
That’s why today, I’ll show you how to elevate positive energy & attract love fast.
After all these years, from my own experience, and later, as a manifestation coach, by helping countless women to manifest the right person, I learned some tricks to speed up things. And I’m going to share them with you.
So how exactly do you attract your dream lover with the help of the law of attraction?
Manifesting your husband/wife or just a wonderful partner on your side follows the same principles as everything else you want to manifest into your life.
- You need to signal to your subconscious what you want.
- You need to make space (by overcoming manifestation blocks and transforming on a subconscious level).
- You then need to take inspired action to make your manifestation come true.
And along the way, you can use different manifestation methods that help you to speed up things.
But let’s now have a look at the three main steps for manifesting love:
Manifesting Love Step 1: Get Clear on the Love You Want
To activate the universal laws (such as the law of attraction and the law of action), it’s important to tell your subconscious mind exactly what you want.
This doesn’t mean that you need to know the exact hair color, size, or even favorite food of your dream partner in the making.
Becoming specific with manifestation goals is often misunderstood and stresses out most people that attempt to manifest their desires. They believe that you have to decide on things where you are still uncertain.
But it doesn’t work that way, It’s all about becoming vibrational aligned with your dream, and you do that by becoming specific about your desired emotions.
Let me give you an example of how I manifested my soulmate without getting specific on physical features…
When I manifested my husband Tom, I could not define what he should look like.
I had a picture of June Carter and Johnny Cash on my vision board. They symbolized the feelings I wanted to get out of a relationship, the strong bond between the two, a relationship full of passion and unconditional love.
And you know what, it’s exactly the relationship I got! We even shared the same story of how we met (we started to work together, both still in other relationships at the time…)
So you see, the universe delivered what I asked for…
When you want to manifest the love of your life, ask yourself:
1. What do you want to get out of this relationship?
2. Why do you want to find your soulmate?
3. What feeling do you want to get out of this?
The more specific you get, the better, but don’t concentrate on unimportant details. Emotions are the fuel of your manifestations.
Manifesting Love Step 2: Get Ready For Your Soulmate
Expect, or believe, is what most people call the second manifesting step. But this is NOT just about being open to receiving (and then waiting for it to happen!)
It’s all about overcoming your manifestation and abundance blocks, priming your subconscious, align vibrationally with your dream relationship. That’s how you’re getting ready to receive.
Your belief alone will not attract anything into your life.
Manifestation is a very active process, and working on your blocks and limiting beliefs is key.
In my PRO manifestation course, which I created from my manifestation book, “Become the CEO of Your Dream Life,” after it became such a bestseller in our community, I go very deep on abundance blocks and limiting beliefs.
Because as long as you have major blocks standing in your way, it’s going to be very hard to take action (the last of the three steps) – but that one is key.
When you want to manifest your ideal partner, then there is this ONE major block you need to remove first:
You have to make room in your life for your new love.
And I’m not talking about clearing out half of your wardrobe. (Sure, that’s also a great way to make room for abundance.) But I’m talking about truly getting ready to share your life with a partner on your side.
This is key to changing your mindset from “being single” to “living in a happy relationship.”
In my course, I offer a mind, body, and life assessment that helps you to examine all areas of your life. With this powerful exercise, you are able to find out what prevents you from manifesting.
And to identify what area you might still have to work on.
But here, as a little hint, are a few questions you can ask yourself if you want to manifest your dream partner:
- Do I have an ex-partner whom I should forgive (or may still have feelings for)?
- Am I really ready to go into a relationship, or do I still want to do things as a single (travel the world, work for charity, have a flatshare with my best friend.)
- Am I at a point in my life where I am truly happy with myself?
And that last point is huge, and in fact, it was my abundance block when I tried to attract my dream husband.
Quick Tip: Reflect on the above question before you even set your love manifestation goals, and come up with questions for your unique situation. I love to use a journal for reflection work, buts sometimes I just go for a long walk.
When you understand what is blocking love from coming into your life, you can start working on it, and then it’s time for the last step:
Manifesting Love Step 3: Take Action & Attract Love
The last step in manifestation gets often called receive, and that’s a bit misleading. Because “receive” is very passive. But this step is all about you taking inspired actions. So it’s really better to call it: achieve.
The law of attraction works like this; you signal to your subconscious mind what you really want.
You then concentrate on this specific outcome and act as if your dream has already come true. Then, your subconscious mind will give you signals, telling you to act.
Expert Love Manifestation Tip: The thing is, you don’t have to wait for the universe to send you signs. You can (no, actually, you should) take some inspired actions first. That’s how you get what I call “the circle of subconscious change” rolling.
I teach this and much more in my free 5-day action-based manifestation email course. If you are interested, you can sign up here.
To manifest true love, some possible inspired actions you could take are:
- Asking a specific person out for a date.
- Signing up for a dating app.
- Tell your couple friends that you are open to some new love; they might have a nice single friend that is also looking right now.
- Put some lipstick on, get out and enjoy life. You never know what’s waiting for you out there!
Taking inspired action is key to your manifesting success, also when you want to manifest your ideal person.
So take that first big set yourself, and then watch out for more signs to act on.
And next time your mother wants to fix you up with the son of her friend, just say Yes! Who knows, maybe you are the next Bridget Jones, and he is your Mr. Darcy?
FAQs – All Your Love Manifestation Questions Answered
After conducting a little survey in my manifestation community, it turns out that searching for the answer to how to manifest love is the number one reason most of the women joined. But not only to find new love but also to attract better relationships they are already in.
Therefore I have many frequently asked questions about the topic. Here are a few I answered in our Q&A sessions that could interest you:
Best Manifestation Methods For Love (To Speed Things Up)
Now that you know how to manifest your dream partner, I guess you can’t wait to take action. That’s great, but before you go, I have some last tips for you on how you can speed up things.
There are a few manifestation techniques and tools that can support you on your journey and help you to manifest your perfect partner even faster. Here are my top three:
Create a vision board for your relationship goals. You know, this tool helped me to manifest my husband; that’s why I’m a big fan of vision boards.
You can create just one section on your board for your love goals or an entire board that shows exactly what your ideal relationship should look like. For more help, check out my vision board guide.
Try love affirmations. Saying out positive affirmations will not magically bring your soulmate into your life, but focusing on positive vibes, surely helps. So they are still a great way to program your subconscious.
Here is an example how what an affirmation to manifest love could look like:
To create your own love affirmation, read my post on how to create manifestation affirmations.
Listen to guided manifestation meditations. They are recordings you can listen to, in the morning or just before you go to bed to reprogram your subconscious. They get you in a very relaxed state, and then it’s like someone is whispering to your subconscious what it should do.
In that relaxed state, your subconscious is very receptive to these suggestions. In case you like to test this out, you can grab one here for free.
So you see, there are many things you can do to manifest love and the partner of your dreams, so take action now. Don’t wait for your soulmate to find you; take an inspired action today, and find him or her!
P.S. Don’t forget your gift! Attract more abundance, including love, with this free guided meditation.