How to Manifest Love With Your Dream Partner
I manifested the love of my life: my husband and soulmate. That’s why I often get asked how manifesting your dream partner works. So here’s the ultimate guide on how to manifest love.
With less than 9 minutes reading time, you’ll learn…
3-Step Love Manifestation Technique
Manifesting love follows the same steps as any manifestation:
1. Set your manifestation goals.
2. Remove blocks & limiting beliefs.
3. Take inspired action.
My guide on manifesting explains them in even more detail, but for now, let’s concentrate on love and relationship manifestation.
Step 1: Set Your Relationship Goals & Get Clear About What You Want
Manifesting the perfect partner starts with getting crystal clear on your manifestation goals. Focus on WHY you want to be in a certain relationship.
Then, take this a step further by concentrating on your emotions.
Just think about how your new partner should make you feel. Ask yourself: what do I value the most in a relationship?
That’s how you become specific.
For example, when I manifested my husband, I could not define what he should look like, so I glued a picture of June Carter and Johnny Cash on my vision board.
They symbolized the feelings I wanted to get out of my relationship.
The strong bond between the two was full of passion and unconditional love. It’s exactly the relationship I got.
That my hubby is also a tall, dark-haired, handsome guy was just a big plus. I could not get that specific with his looks when I manifested him.
The universe just did a great job here.
Struggle with gaining clarity?
In my bestselling manifestation book ‘Become the CEO of Your Dream Life‘ I teach my signature advanced manifestation process.
Working with different goals to help you reflect on your true desires, and to build a plan to reach your dreams. I call this technique the ‘dream life plan.’
Step 2: Remove Relationship Blocks & Limiting Beliefs Around Finding True Love
When you want to learn how to manifest love into your life, you must first look at what is blocking you.
Removing manifestation blocks, like limiting beliefs around finding your soulmate, is key.
Everyone holds such blocks, and the goal isn’t perfection but understanding what keeps you from manifesting a good love life:
- Notice recurring negative patterns or beliefs about relationships and explore them honestly.
- Challenge your negative beliefs about love manifestation: Where do they come from? And are they really true?
- Check on your emotions around relationship topics. When you think about dating, past relationships, or even relationships others have, what feelings come up?
Reflection work can be hard, so here is a little help:
7 Common Limiting Beliefs About Love & Relationships
Read all these statements and see how you feel. When you agree, it’s a sign that you hold this limiting belief:
- I’m not worthy of love or a healthy relationship.
- All the good partners are already taken.
- I’ll never find someone who accepts me for who I am.
- Love is always painful and ends in heartbreak.
- I’m too old to find the love of my life.
- I need to be perfect or change myself to be loved.
- Relationships are too much work and effort.
If you hold any of these beliefs, ask yourself: ‘Is this true?’ ‘Does this serve me?’
Identify why you think you can’t manifest true love, and then turn these limiting beliefs about relationships around.
Limiting beliefs are just one type of abundance block; factors like environment, your health, and past or current relationships do play a big role.
Identifying them is important, and my manifestation book offers actionable tips on removing them.
Step 3: Take Inspired Action to Attract the Love of Your Life
The final step in manifesting love is taking inspired action.
You need vibrational alignment with your relationship goal. Your inspired actions are the key part of this alignment.
Here, I can’t agree with some of the manifestation books, such as ‘The Secret.’ “Ask, believe, receive” will not attract your dream spouse into your life.
Just asking the universe and waiting for it is not a manifestation.
It is called luck.
Luck sometimes works, but it’s not reliable or controllable.
What would you rather want…
1. Depend on hope & luck-based manifestation (and maybe find true love one day?)
2. Have a clear manifestation path that gives you control over attracting your dream partner.
Taking inspired action is so powerful because:
- This way, you guide your subconscious mind by aligning your relationship goals with your actions. This subconscious transformation triggers manifestation.
- You overcome your self-limiting beliefs by proving to yourself that ‘you’re worthy of love.’ With my advanced manifestation method, we do this by setting a very specific type of goal.
- Your action steps become an unstoppable avalanche, attracting all the opportunities leading to your soulmate. That’s when manifestation becomes effortless.
Manifestation is a goal-setting and achieving process, one that has your subconscious in the back.
But for this, your subconscious needs to first be reprogrammed.
That’s what you do by taking action.
That’s how love-attracting action steps could look like:
- Declutter your life to make space for your new partner. It’s all about getting ready for your soulmate. But it’s not just about clearing your closet…
Ask yourself if you have an ex-partner you should forgive first or how ready you are for this relationship. - Practice self-love and self-care to show yourself some love. Love yourself to be loved by others.
- Be open for love & start to date. Asking a specific person out for a date is a great inspired action. But you can also sign up for a dating app.
Or tell your friends that you are open to finding new love; they might have a nice single friend.
Taking inspired action is key. And having a true action plan means you give your subconscious a map to get you there.
That’s what you learn with my 3-role manifestation method, the one I share in my book. You get an entire ‘management team’ creating the perfect love path for you.
Use the Right Love Manifestation Methods
After we closely looked at the three basic steps, let’s see how to manifest love faster by using some powerful manifestation rituals.
Manifestation methods are supporting you throughout your entire journey:
- Reflecting on your relationship goals.
- Identify blocks and limiting beliefs around love.
- Overcome relationship blocks.
- Reprogram your subconscious mind to get vibrational aligned.
Here are a few love manifestation techniques you could try:
Love Affirmations
Affirmations can help you attract your ideal partner by programming positive beliefs into your subconscious through affirmative statements.
You can use guided affirmations (download my favorite one for free), or you can simply say them out loud or write them down.
What matters is that your subconscious starts believing this new story about your love life.
Your subconscious then aligns your thoughts, emotions, and actions towards your love goals, making you more receptive to opportunities.
Examples of relationship affirmations are:
- “I am a magnet for my soulmate, drawing them to me with every heartbeat.”
- “I am worthy of deep and unconditional love.”
- “I am loved by a soulmate who is kind, compassionate, and respects me.”
Manifestation Affirmations for Love Video
Repeat them daily for the best results. They work instantly, but don’t forget: your love manifestation is a process, and your subconscious loves repetition.
Here is the gift I mentioned in the video: Free Guided Affirmation Session.
Create a Relationship Vision Board to Attract The Love of Your Life
A love manifestation vision board uses visual representations of your relationship goals to send a specific message to your subconscious. It’s a constant reminder of your ‘dream partner in the making.’
Here’s how you get started:
Step 1: Clearly define what type of partner or relationship you want.
We did this in the first step. Reflect on all the aspects of your dream partner and the relationship.
Step 2: Find images that represent this relationship as love vision board examples
Concentrate on your emotions; how would you feel? Find pictures that align with your ideal relationship or marriage vision.
Step 3: Create a collage with all the images. You can do this digitally or on a poster board.
Step 4: Place the love vision board where you can see it often, and work with it.
Just having pictures of your dream husband on a wall will not magically make him fall from the sky. Use your vision board to visualize yourself living in this new relationship.
Use Love Visualization to Make Your Relationship Manifestation Real
Creative visualization is a manifestation technique that helps you imagine, as if you already live in the perfect relationship, to align your subconscious to your goals.
Your subconscious does not understand what’s real and what’s not. That makes it such a powerful manifestation ritual.
- Visualize a clear, specific image of the relationship you desire, focusing on how your partner makes you feel.
- Close your eyes if you want, but most visualize easier with open eyes. Concentrate on all the details, like what you hear, see, and smell.
- Make your love visualization realistic; the more detailed you get, the better. Imagine yourself feeling excited and full of gratitude when spending time with your new partner.
Love Manifestation Journal Prompts
Love journal entries can help you gain more clarity, identify limiting beliefs, or simply keep you focused on your journey.
Use these relationship journal prompts to get started:
- What does my perfect partner and relationship look like? Reflect on every detail, especially the emotion.
- Why do I want to manifest a partner? That’s a good question to ask because sometimes it’s not the partner we truly desire but something we hope this person fulfills in us.
- What is holding me back from finding true love? Uncover what is holding you back from finding your dream partner and get into a new relationship.
When you start a love manifestation journal, write everything that comes up. Don’t overthink it. Want help? Download your free journaling starter kit.
Trust the Love Manifestation Process & Let Go of Past Relationships
Letting go when manifesting does not mean waiting for your soulmate to show up in your life. It’s about:
- Removing limiting beliefs about finding true love and trust in the process and yourself.
- Remove what’s blocking you from committing to a new relationship. (Like past relationships or hurt).
- Accept that love manifestation works on its specific timeline.
Trusting the Love Manifestation Timeline
Manifesting your dreams works on its specific timeline, aligning with how ready you are, what actions you take, and external factors.
Especially when you manifest a relationship, as there is always a second person involved.
Setting your intention starts the process; after that, other things need to fall into place.
For example, when I manifested my husband, we hadn’t met. We were even living in different countries. Also, we were both still in other relationships.
It took a while for both of us to get ready for each other, so the ‘universe’ had to do its magic first. This “divine timing” ensures you’re fully ready.
It allows your manifestation to unfold naturally, often with better results.
Love Manifestation Signs
Understanding the signs that your manifestation is coming helps you better connect with your subconscious and follow opportunities as they arise.
Here are the top love manifestation signs to watch out for:
- You feel different about relationships, but also yourself. You may feel better about your situation as a single or get excited to date. It can also mean feeling relieved because you have let go of past relationships.
- Opportunities to meet your soulmate. Manifestation is about taking inspired action and giving you more opportunities, the subconscious mind’s way of showing you the path.
- A strong gut feeling that something big is coming. Sometimes, it’s really simple; you feel that you will soon meet the love of your life.
- Synchronicities. They could include meeting the same person repeatedly or catching up with an old friend.
Love Manifestation FAQ
Here are more frequently asked questions about manifesting love:
If you have any other questions about love manifestation, feel free to contact me. I’m happy to help.
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How I Manifested My Husband (And So Can You!)
When I started with manifestation and made my first vision board, one topic was very big for me.
I wanted to manifest a husband.
At the time, I had just turned 30, and another relationship ended in drama. I was unhappy and also a bit desperate.
But I still hoped that my Mr. Right would show up one day.
Today, I’m glad I didn’t give up on my dream because I manifested my soulmate, Tom.
But it took three long years to add a picture of my “dream partner” to my
vision board and finally manifest him into my real life.
Love manifestation is not a magic trick; it still needs your patience, commitment, and inspired actions.
But magical things can happen when you program your subconscious to align with your desired partner.
And this brings me to the last important message of this post.
Celebrate your wins!
Enjoy every date, and most importantly, enjoy the time with yourself.
My dream partner only had space in my life when I truly became content with myself.
I ask all the ladies in my PRO manifestation course early on in their journey to reflect on what they have already manifested.
And keep track of everything, small or big.
It’s an amazing exercise to reflect on, and my students are often surprised about how well they are already manifesting.
Think about the power this message has on your subconscious.
That’s why I want you to do the same when attracting love.
Focus on even the smallest wins and add a lot of gratitude to it.
This means noticing the smile from the stranger, having fun on dates (even if they just end in friendships), and embracing everything that teaches you more about what you truly want in a relationship.
This includes setbacks, as they are valuable lessons.
But now it’s time to take inspired action!
Grab your copy of my bestselling manifestation book for a step-by-step guide on how to manifest everything you want (including the love of your life.)
PS. Another manifestation method worth mentioning is guided meditation.
I can’t guarantee overnight love manifestation, but when you use them in the evening, it’s almost like manifesting while you sleep. Click here to download your free session!
