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How to Manifest Love From a Specific Person

By Manifestation Book AuthorMia Fox

Are you looking to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you? Or maybe you even want to attract your ex back? Then this post is for you. 

A woman with her soulmate she manifested

Today, I will answer the big question so many of my readers have: can you manifest your SP, and if so, how do you do it the right way?

Here’s your answer.

Can You Manifest a Special Person to Fall in Love With You?

How to manifest love is one of the top topics on my manifestation blog. And it’s something I love to write about.

I not only manifested my husband, including my dream wedding, but as a bestselling manifestation book author, I helped countless women with their love manifestation success stories.

So yes, manifestation works for love, no doubt. But the question remains whether it also works to get that special someone to fall in love with you…

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First, the short answer: Yes, you can manifest a relationship with a specific person. You can also manifest your ex back.

But manifesting your SP doesn’t mean you can control their feelings or choices. You can only control your side of the relationship: what you want, the beliefs and patterns you bring into love, and how you choose to show up.

So when you manifest a specific person, focus on what you can actually lead: the relationship you want to experience and the woman you want to be inside that relationship.

  • Good to know: Don’t make your manifestation goal ‘I need this person to choose me.’ Get clear on the relationship you actually want to experience, then focus on the beliefs, patterns, and actions you bring to creating it.

Now that we have clarified this, let’s get into the steps on how to manifest your SP.

How to manifest someone to fall in love with you in 3-Steps

To manifest your desired partner, you have to follow the three steps of manifestation:

1. Get clear on the relationship you actually want.

2. Find the subconscious patterns affecting how you show up in love.

3. Take action that matches the relationship you want to create.

Step 1: Get Clear on the Relationship You Actually Want (Not Just the Person)

When you manifest that special someone, you have ONE big advantage. You know exactly what you want. And this person already exists in your life.

And while I would suggest reflecting on the question of ‘what you want’ first when manifesting love, you can skip that one.

What you could do instead is to reflect on the type of relationship you want to manifest with your SP.

Specific Person Journal Prompts

SP manifestation prompts are a great way to attract your special someone. You gain more clarity, identify limiting beliefs, or keep you focused on your journey.

Specific Person Manifestation Journal Prompts
  • Why do I want to manifest this specific person? That’s a good question to ask because sometimes it’s not the partner we truly desire but something we hope this person fulfills in us.

  • What does my perfect relationship with my SP look like? Reflect on every detail, especially the emotion. How do you want your SP make you feel?

  • What is holding me back from manifesting this specific person? Uncover what is holding you back from asking your SP out for a date or taking your relationship to the next level.

Write everything down that comes up, and don’t overthink it.

This is also a good time to reflect on whether your SP is the right match for you. In case this person is taken, rethink your manifestation goals.

I won’t tell you not to invest your energy into the desire to manifest this specific person…

…but I also wouldn’t make breaking up a well-functioning relationship part of your manifestation goal.

If you have read my story on how I manifested my husband, then you know that we were both still in a relationship when we met.

However, both of us were unhappy in the relationship.

I think reflecting on his/her situation will also give you more clarity about what you really want.

Struggling to gain clarity?

In my bestselling manifestation book, ‘Become the CEO of Your Dream Life, ‘I teach my signature advanced manifestation process.

Working with different goals to help you reflect on your true desires, and to build a plan to reach your dreams, with a technique called the ‘dream life plan.’

Step 2: Remove Your Relationship Blocks & Work on Self-Love

Manifestation always starts within you.

You have to clear your own limiting beliefs and other manifestation blocks around love; you have to become open to welcoming your ideal person into your life.

It’s about programming your subconscious mind in a way that opens up to giving and receiving love.

Eliminate blocks that may prevent you from having a good relationship.

Manifestation is not a magic trick or love spell you can use to make a specific person fall in love with you.

Manifestation Quote Graphic: Before you start manifesting someone else to love you, start by loving yourself. When you are loved, you attract love. Mia Fox – Author of ‘Become the CEO of Your Dream Life’

If you want to manifest love, you start with yourself.

Self-love is important because it changes the beliefs and patterns you bring into a relationship. Reflect on why your past relationship ended and how you can improve it when you get back together.

That was KEY when I manifested my hubby back after he left me.

Self-care is a great way to show your subconscious that you love yourself. Show your subconscious that you deserve love by loving yourself.

Limiting beliefs are just one type of abundance block; factors like environment, your health, and past or current relationships do play a big role.

Identifying them is important, and my manifestation book gives you the practical steps to remove what is blocking you from manifesting someone you love.

Step 3: Take Inspired Action to Manifest Your Special Person

Manifestation means ‘to make real’ – and for this, you need action. And that’s especially true when you manifest someone to fall in love with you.

I can’t entirely agree with some of the most famous manifestation books, such as ‘The Secret.’ regarding the action part of manifestation.

Manifestation for a specific person takes more than ‘ask, believe, receive.’

Just asking the universe and waiting is not manifestation.

It is called luck.

Luck can work, but it’s not in your control.

And what would you rather want…

1. Depending on hope & luck-based manifestation (and maybe manifest someone.)

2. Have a clear path that gives you control over manifesting your dream partner.

a woman texting her SP she is manifesting

Taking inspired action is needed because:

  • It guides your subconscious mind by aligning you with the goal to manifest someone to fall in love with you.

  • It helps you overcome your self-limiting beliefs by proving to yourself that ‘you’re worthy of love.’ With my advanced manifestation method, we do this with a very specific type of goal.

  • It helps you notice and act on opportunities that can move you closer to the relationship you want.

Bonus: If focusing on one specific person has you overthinking the outcome, use my free I Am a Love Attractor guided affirmation to bring your focus back to the beliefs and patterns you can actually change.

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Manifestation is a simple goal-setting and achieving process where the subconscious has your back. But your subconscious mind first needs to run on a new program.

And you have to reprogram it by taking action.

Instead of sitting around, hoping, and trying to manifest someone asking you out… how about you doing the first step?

Or, if it’s your ex you want to manifest back, how about signaling that you are still in love and would like to talk?

Once you have done the above steps, gained more clarity, and become more emotionally aligned with your desired outcome (by overcoming blocks and self-doubt), you’ll have enough confidence to take this big (inspired) action.

Taking inspired action is a key part of love manifestation. And with a clear action plan you give your subconscious a map to follow.

One of the many things you’ll learn in my book. For example, with my 3-role manifestation method, you get an entire ‘management team’ creating the perfect love path for you.

Top Methods For Your SP Manifestation Routine

Now you know the key steps for your specific person manifestation, let’s check out some powerful manifestation rituals you can use to speed things up.

a woman creating a vision board for the life she wants to experience with her special person she is manifesting

Manifestation methods are supporting tools you can use on your entire journey there.

They are great for…

  • Reflecting on your special person and your relationship goals.
  • Identify blocks and limiting beliefs around manifesting someone you love.
  • Overcome blocks preventing you from manifesting your SP fast.
  • Reprogram your subconscious beliefs around love and relationships.

I already shared some journal prompts with you. You could also create a love vision board to attract a specific person. But one of my favorite techniques to reprogram your subconscious to manifest your sp fast is affirmations.

Manifesting Love With Specific Person Affirmations

Love affirmations for a specific person help you by programming positive beliefs into your subconscious via affirmative statements.

You can use guided affirmations (get my favorite session for free here), but you can also use written affirmations. What matters is that your subconscious starts believing this new success story about you and your SP.

Your subconscious beliefs can change how you show up around this person, helping you become more receptive to opportunities to move the relationship forward.

Examples of how to manifest a specific person affirmations:

“My heart and this special one’s heart are aligned, and we are in perfect harmony.”

“I trust myself to recognize and act on opportunities for love.”

“I am open to creating a loving, healthy relationship with this person.”

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Get Emotionally Aligned With Gratitude (That’s How I manifested My Special Person)

When you want to manifest a specific person, vibrational alignment is not a one-sided thing. It always takes two for a relationship to work.

You can do your part.

Think about what would make the perfect match for this other person.

It’s not about changing yourself to be loved. It’s about becoming clear on what a healthy relationship would look like and making sure your own actions support it.

The best tip I can give you is to accept (and enjoy) your current circumstances no matter what your love life looks like right now.

You do that by practicing gratitude, one of my favorite tools when manifesting.

Be grateful for the simple fact that you know this special person. (Think about how awful it would be if you wanted to attract love but couldn’t find someone you actually like.)

You are already experiencing love. Let yourself appreciate that feeling without making your happiness depend on what happens next.

And this brings me to the last important message of this post.

Celebrate your wins.

Enjoy every interaction with your SP, and most importantly, enjoy the time with yourself.

Mia Fox Las Vegas Wedding


My soulmate only had space in my life when I truly fell in love with myself.

I ask the students in my Manifestation Practical Path early on in their journey to reflect on what they have already manifested.

And keep track of everything, small or big.

It’s an amazing exercise, and my students are often surprised by how well they are already manifesting. Think about the power this message has on your subconscious.

Focus on even the smallest wins on your journey to manifest your SP. Add a lot of gratitude to it for more power.

This includes setbacks because they can be important lessons.

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About Mia Fox

Mia Fox is a bestselling author and former NLP coach who rebuilt her life at 30 after losing everything — and spent years figuring out why traditional manifestation advice never worked. She founded SelfMadeLadies® in 2018 and has since helped millions of women with her practical, subconscious-first 3-Role Manifestation Method™. Her book, Become the CEO of Your Dream Life, inspired an award-winning program, called The Manifestation Practical Path now used in over 188 countries, guiding women to transform their lives through self-coaching.


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