7 Questions to Find Out What You Really Want in Life

Question 1 – What Would I Wish for Someone I Love?

This probably sounds like a weird question when it comes to finding out what you want for yourself?

But the problem that many people have is that they are having a hard time thinking about themselves. It may seem selfish to them, they may think they don’t deserve this, so it is often easier to think about someone else.

Think of someone you love, who means a lot to you, for whom you only want the best. What would you wish for this person?

How would you imagine life to be for this person?

We often project things we want for ourselves onto people we like. We think it would be the “best for them,” but in reality, it is something we want for ourselves, or that would be “the best” for us.

Question 2 – What Would You Do With Your Life if Money Wasn’t an Issue?

Many of us allow money to hold us back from our dreams because we believe we cannot afford this or that. However, what I have noticed over all these years of working with the Law of Attraction, and helping others to make it work, manifesting money is easier than most people think.

So just let go of the idea that you can’t afford something you desire; we have an endless supply of money, and new money is being printed every day.

And in the future, it is likely that even the printing of money will no longer be necessary.

So imagine you have a bank balance of $1 billion.

What would you buy first with the money? What would your lifestyle look like? Don’t limit yourself; you can have everything you want!

Question 3 – What Things Would You Like to Experience if You Have Absolutely No Fear?

Fear is another big manifesting block that keeps many people from reaching for the stars.

I can understand this personally very well because fear has been one of my biggest obstacles for a long time and has kept me from manifesting and living my dream life.

If fear is an issue for you, you can use it to find better out what you really want because there is a big chance that this fear will hold you back from your big goal.

So ask yourself, if fear was absolutely no issue for you and nothing could happen to you, how would your life look different than it is now?

Question 4 – A Genie Gives You Three Free Wishes. What Would They Be?

Here it’s all about answering spontaneously and thinking about what you would wish if you only had three wishes.

Of course, you can manifest anything you want in your life, and you are not limited to three things, the Law of Attraction works based on the law of abundance.

But this question is about finding out what you desire the most.

Question 5 – What Would Your Ideal Day Look Like?

Design your ideal day is a technique that I often use for visualization, but it is also a perfect way to find out exactly what you want in life.

Ask yourself what your ideal day would look like? The answer to this question can give you so much information when it comes to finding out what you really want.

Here it is crucial that you don’t limit yourself, this is your day, you don’t have to take care of anyone. Money doesn’t matter. You can spend the day where you want, how you want, and with who you want.

Question 6 – You Are 100 Years Old and Look Back, What Would You Be Most Happy About?

A few months ago, we celebrated my grandmother’s 95th birthday, and all her grandchildren, from around the world,  came to the party. My cousins are actually all like me, well-traveled, so we all talked about our favorite destinations and future travel plans.

We all live in different countries and plan to visit each other more often.

My grandmother was very happy about this and said that traveling is something she is glad to have done it in her life.

This made me think if I would be 100 years old and would look back on my life, what would I be most happy about having experienced it?

This question can go very deep, don’t belong to those people who look back someday and say to themselves: “Oh if I could only turn back time…”.

Think about what you would say when you are older, what would make you happy, proud, in peace with yourself… if you know that you did it in your life. And make it your goal to have these experiences before you are 100 years old.

Question 7 – What Do I Not Like to Do?

If really none of these questions will help you to find out what you want, it is the easiest to have a look at what you don’t want. Most of the time, the answer lies in the opposite.

You may have often heard that you have to be careful when manifesting, that you don’t “order” anything negative, because the universe can’t distinguish between “I want…” and “I don’t want…”!

That’s true when it comes to Law of Attraction tools such as affirmations or visualizations; then it is important to send the right signals to your subconscious mind, but to find out what you really want, it can be helpful to answer the question about “what you don’t want.”

⇒ EXPERT TIP: Don’t forget to always ask for the why in order to really find out what you want in life.