Love ManifesTATION Guide
Your Practical Subconscious-First Way to Manifest Love & Better Relationships
By Mia Fox – Bestselling Manifestation Book Author
If you’ve done the journaling, the visualizing, maybe even tried a few dating apps — and still feel like TRUE love keeps slipping through your fingers — you’re not alone.
The problem isn’t you. And it’s not your age, your past, or your relationship history.
It’s the way manifestation is often taught… vague, overly spiritual, and missing the practical steps women like us actually need.
But imagine attracting a partner who sees you. One who meets you with confidence, kindness, and connection — not games or guesswork. A relationship that fits the life you’re building now.
That’s exactly what happened when I used Action-Based Manifestation™ to call in my soulmate — after years of heartbreak and disappointment.
And in this guide, I’ll show you how to apply the same process to your love life, so you can stop chasing, start aligning, and open yourself to the kind of love that actually lasts.
Ready? Let’s begin.
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3-Step Love Manifestation Technique
The Path That Finally Makes Love Manifestation Work
Dream It!
Get Clear on the Relationship You Truly Want — Most advice says “write a partner list,” but your subconscious doesn’t connect to bullet points. You build real clarity when you tie love to emotion: how you want to feel, what you’re building together, and why this relationship matters to your future self.
Align It!
Clear the Hidden Love Blocks Holding You Back — Fear of being hurt again, past relationships still echoing in your mind, or beliefs like “it’s too late” quietly shut down your energy. The good news? These can shift. When you spot the patterns, you can soften them — and your subconscious begins to open to possibility.
Manifest It!
Turn Alignment Into Action — Manifesting love isn’t about waiting to be chosen. It becomes real when you become the version of you who’s already living in that aligned relationship. Through small, consistent steps, you start radiating the energy of someone who is ready — and your subconscious begins to draw in the people and moments that match.
You’ve probably heard manifestation taught as Ask, Believe, Receive, popularized by The Secret and repeated ever since. If simply asking and waiting worked, you wouldn’t be reading this. My 3-Role Method™ bridges belief with action, align your subconscious, then move in small, inspired steps. Let me share you what changes once you manifest with a subconscious-first approach.
Step ONE — Dream It
Set Your Love Goals & Get Clear On What You Truly Want
Most people think ‘asking’ means writing down a checklist of traits. But your subconscious doesn’t fall in love with hair color or job titles — it connects with meaning.
That’s why instead of saying, “I want someone tall, charming, and emotionally available,” you get specific about how you want to feel in the relationship.
Loved. Safe. Seen. Desired. Laughing in your kitchen. Traveling together without drama. Waking up next to someone who actually knows how to communicate.
In Subconscious-First Manifestation™, we don’t stop at surface-level attraction. We focus on moments — emotional anchors that imprint on your subconscious and guide your decisions.
And it’s not about visualizing a fairytale.
It’s about defining the kind of relationship that aligns with the woman you’re becoming.
Your Action: Ask yourself, “How do I want to feel in love?” Then get specific. Write out those moments — a Sunday morning with coffee and calm. A conversation where you feel truly heard. A life where love feels expansive, not draining.
That emotional clarity is what flips the switch in your subconscious.
And that’s exactly what I guide you through in Become the CEO of Your Dream Life. Inside, you’ll use my 3-Role Framework™ to map out your relationship vision — a tool I normally only teach inside my $497 Manifestation Practical Path program, but you can start using it today for a fraction of the price.
I’ve read so many manifestation books over the years and honestly, I always felt like I was missing something. When I read your book, it finally clicked. For the first time I stopped writing down random things and started connecting my goals to what actually matters to me. Now I feel excited about my future instead of overwhelmed by it.
Your Life’s Next Chapter Starts With This One.
Manifestation starts with one powerful subconscious shift. And it’s all in Chapter One.
Step TWO — Align It
Remove Relationship Blocks & Limiting Beliefs to Unblock True Love
This is where most manifestation advice says “just believe.” But belief alone doesn’t shift anything if your subconscious is still holding onto heartbreak, rejection, or stories like “love never works out for me.”
True belief comes from alignment — from clearing the quiet blocks that keep your subconscious stuck in protection mode instead of attraction mode.
Almost every woman I work with has some form of love block. It’s normal.
Sometimes it’s a lingering fear that history will repeat itself.
Sometimes it’s a belief you picked up in childhood — that love has to be earned, or that it always comes with pain.
Sometimes it’s the subtle voice that says, “Maybe it’s too late.”
Your Action: Start by noticing where resistance or fear shows up around love.
Do you feel a pit in your stomach when someone asks if you’re dating?
Do you downplay your desires because you’re “too busy” or “fine on your own”?
Do you still carry the weight of past relationships — even the ones you thought you were over?
These are signs of subconscious blocks. The good news? Spotting them is the first step to softening them.
Inside my Manifestation Practical Path program, I guide women through releasing these blocks with specific tools that work on a deep, subconscious level. But if you’re just getting started, awareness alone can shift the energy.
The goal isn’t to become perfect. The goal is to become available. Because once your subconscious feels safe to receive love, it starts helping you attract the kind that actually lasts.
A great way to get started with this is by reading my bestselling manifestation book. Get your copy here.
Before reading your book, I hadn’t noticed how much tension I carried around the idea of having a fuller life. I thought the tightness in my chest every time I handled anything “practical” was just how life worked. The way you broke down those inner blocks helped me see the patterns I kept repeating without realizing it. Something loosened. I feel as if there’s room to breathe again, and I’m finally open to the idea that good things can flow toward me without struggle. And, almost without trying, I’ve already felt a shift this week with an unexpected opportunity landing in my Etsy shop.
Your Life’s Next Chapter Starts With This One.
Manifestation starts with one powerful subconscious shift. And it’s all in Chapter One.
Step THREE — Manifest It
Turn Alignment Into Inspired Action by Becoming the Future You
This is where most advice says “just receive.” But love doesn’t show up because you waited long enough. It shows up when you start becoming the version of you who already has the kind of relationship you desire.
When you embody her — your future, loved-up self — everything shifts.
You carry yourself differently.
You make different choices.
You don’t settle, chase, or cling — you attract.
Your environment, your habits, even your calendar starts to make space for the kind of love you want.
Your Action: Ask yourself what actions the “in love” version of you would take.
Would she still text her ex out of boredom?
Would she hesitate to go on a date because her confidence isn’t “ready”?
Would she live in a space that feels cluttered, emotionally or physically?
Or would she…
Forgive what needs forgiving (not for them — for her peace)?
Declutter the emotional leftovers of relationships past?
Say yes to the invite, try the app, smile back at the guy in line?
Manifestation doesn’t mean micromanaging your love life. It means showing your subconscious that you’re already in motion — already creating a life where love fits easily.
That’s why inside the Manifestation Practical Path, I walk you through how to step into your love identity — so you stop waiting to be chosen and start choosing the life you want.
You don’t need luck. You need alignment and consistent action.
That’s when the love you’re calling in becomes inevitable.
I never expected this, but I feel calmer moving through my day now. Things that used to spike tension in my body just… don’t. I find myself pausing and thinking, I’m grateful I get to show up for this part of my life, and that tiny shift has lifted a weight I carried for years without realizing it. It feels as if I’m no longer being pushed around by old fears, and I can finally meet my intentions with a clear, open space inside me. Your book is so much more than just about “manifestation.”
Your Life’s Next Chapter Starts With This One.
Manifestation starts with one powerful subconscious shift. And it’s all in Chapter One.
Personal Story
From Heartbreak to Soulmate – My Love Manifestation Story
When I first started working with manifestation, love felt like the area I couldn’t quite figure out.
I had just turned 30. Another relationship had ended in disappointment. I was doing all the right things — visualizing, journaling, hoping. But deep down, I was starting to wonder if it was just too late for the kind of love I really wanted.
That kind of love where you feel emotionally safe. Fully seen. Home.
Back then, I created a vision board. And instead of choosing a stock photo of a perfect couple, I glued on a picture of June Carter and Johnny Cash.
Not because I wanted a country star — but because they symbolized the kind of love I longed for. Loyal. Passionate. Deep. A true partnership.
Fast forward a little, and a new colleague joined the company where I was working. When they introduced him around the office, he came through our department. As he walked out, one of my co-workers leaned over and whispered… “Oh my God, did you see him? He looks like a young Johnny Cash.”
I didn’t think much of it in the moment. But later, after we’d started dating — I showed him my vision board.
And I’ll never forget the feeling I had. It was like my subconscious had known long before I did. I had called in exactly what I asked for…
Yes, he turned out to be tall, dark-haired, and incredibly handsome — but that was just a bonus. What mattered was what I felt. And it didn’t come from chasing love. It came from aligning with it.
Today, I’m married to a man who not only matches that vision, but expands it. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this:
You’re not starting over.
You’re starting from experience.
And that’s the most powerful place to manifest from.
Your Life’s Next Chapter Starts With This One.
Manifestation starts with one powerful subconscious shift. And it’s all in Chapter One.
Letting Go
Trusting the Love Manifestation Process Without Giving Up Control
When most people hear “let it go,” they think it means giving up — or stepping back and waiting for the universe to send Prince Charming to their doorstep.
But that’s not letting go. That’s hoping. And hope alone doesn’t create real change.
Letting go means releasing the fear, the timelines, and the pressure — while still showing up as the version of you who is ready to receive.
You don’t surrender the how. You own it. Through aligned action, subconscious work, and intentional choices.
What you do let go of is the clinging, the checking, the “is this ever going to happen for me?” energy that keeps your subconscious stuck in scarcity.
When you’ve done the work — set a clear intention, cleared your blocks, and started embodying the version of you who already lives in that relationship — your subconscious has the map. And it knows exactly how to get you there.
The balance is this: You act. You trust. You allow.
That’s when love shows up in unexpected, deeply aligned ways — and it often arrives when you finally stop trying so hard to make it happen.
Inside my bestselling book, I walk you through how to take the right kind of action without falling into overthinking or over-efforting — so letting go doesn’t mean stepping back… it means moving forward without fear.
I used to think manifestation meant writing affirmations and then just waiting for the dreams to show up. Honestly, it left me frustrated because nothing ever changed. When I tried Mia’s approach, the focus on subconscious supported action was the game-changer. I started small with one aligned step and the results came faster than I expected. For the first time, I feel like I’m actually in control of my dream life instead of just hoping something will happen.
Signs Your Love Manifestation Is Working
Once you’ve set your love goals, cleared your blocks, and started showing up as the woman who’s ready for real connection — your subconscious starts sending signals that you’re in alignment.
These signs may not look like a soulmate showing up at your door (yet), but they’re powerful indicators that love is already on its way.
Here’s what to look for: You feel calmer and lighter about love — even if you’re still single. You stop obsessing over when it will happen, and start trusting that it will.
Opportunities begin to appear — a friend invites you to a dinner party, a stranger smiles at you, or a dating profile feels different this time. These aren’t random. They’re openings.
You’re more open — and more discerning — you feel clearer on what you want, and less tempted to entertain what doesn’t feel aligned.
You catch yourself feeling… excited — not because someone’s shown up yet, but because you know something is shifting inside you. And it is.
These small signals are big deals. Because they’re proof that your subconscious is no longer resisting love — it’s preparing for it.
And once that shift begins, the outer reality always follows.
So notice the signs. Celebrate them. And keep going.
Your Life’s Next Chapter Starts With This One.
Manifestation starts with one powerful subconscious shift. And it’s all in Chapter One.
Love Manifestation Starts Here
Your Next Step to Better Relationships
When I stopped chasing love from a place of lack and started applying Subconscious-First Manifestation™, everything shifted.
I didn’t just manifest a partner — I created a relationship that fits the life I wanted to live. Emotionally connected. Aligned. Effortless in all the right ways.
And I’m not the only one.
Since launching SelfMadeLadies, I’ve shared this approach with over a million women worldwide — and I’ve seen what happens when smart, self-aware women stop settling and start aligning.
This isn’t about luck. It’s about a proven method that helps you rewire your subconscious and take aligned action — so love no longer feels out of reach.
That’s exactly what I walk you through inside my bestselling book, Become the CEO of Your Dream Life.
It’s the same framework my $497 program is built on, but you can start applying it today — for a fraction of the price.
If this feels aligned, your next step is simple: Grab your copy of the book here and begin your own love story.
PS: Not quite ready to dive in? Start with the first chapter for free. Inside, you’ll discover the very first shift that helped women around the world start manifesting real, lasting love — including me.
Download your free chapter here.
Mia Fox is a bestselling author and former NLP coach who rebuilt her life at 30 after losing everything — and spent years figuring out why traditional manifestation advice never worked. She founded SelfMadeLadies® in 2018 and has since helped millions of women with her practical, subconscious-first 3-Role Manifestation Method™. Her book, Become the CEO of Your Dream Life, inspired an award-winning program, called The Manifestation Practical Path now used in over 188 countries, guiding women to transform their lives through self-coaching.
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Your Life’s Next Chapter Starts With This One.
Manifestation starts with one powerful subconscious shift. And it’s all in Chapter One.