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Design Your Dream Life Now! (With Visualization)

Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve“— Napoleon Hill. This is so true! If you can imagine yourself, achieving something, or having or doing something, you can manifest this into your life. And this makes visualization such a powerful Law of Attraction tool. Want to learn more about it? I guess you do…

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Design your dream life is a bold headline. But is it actually possible? Are we really the designers of our (ideal) life? Of course, we are! Look around yourself. Everything you have in your life was first an idea or imagination.

Everything you really wanted in your life became a reality.

So you did manifest all these things into your life already, and now all you need to do is to manifest consciously.

Read on when you want to learn how you can exactly attract the life you always wanted, by conscious manifestation, and the power of visualization.

First Ask; What Do I Really Want in My Life?

See, If you want to change something in your life, first you have to know what it is that you want to change. You need to have a clear picture in your head. Otherwise, your subconscious mind will not know where to guide you. 

You can achieve everything you want. So why should you let yourself drift through life without direction?

Give yourself direction. The best way to do this is to focus think about your ideal life in every detail. Writing it down. Let your subconscious mind know what you truly desire.

You will identify what is really important for you and whatnot. If you could achieve everything. With no limitations and no boundaries. How would your life look like?

Ask yourself questions like the ones below and then write down the answers:

  • In what house would you live?
  • How would your partner look like? What characteristics would she or he have?
  • How much money would you have? And what would you do with it?
  • Who or what would you support?
  • Where would you live?
  • What would you invest your time in?
  • Where would you invest your money in?
  • Where would you travel for vacation?


Don’t be surprised if you find out that your real drivers are not really what you thought so far. This exercise will let you focus on your inner world.

Listen to yourself. You know that you are finished when you really feel excited about your future life and feel the urge to jump right up and do something to achieve these goals.

Because taking action is critical here, but I will explain this at the end of this post. Let’s first have a look at how you can “design” your dream life.

This is Your Dream Life Not Others (Just a Kind Reminder)

Don’t feel obligated to write something down just because it’s expected of you to have, do, or be a certain way.

This was one of my main abundance blockers for half of my life. Looking back, I think because of this, I did miss out on so many awesome things.

I had a very narrow belief system. I was the awkward kid, with many insecurities. And one thing people told me often, was that I will never make it.

Then there was my family. My parents are wonderful, but they never had a great money mindset. Typical working-class syndrome, I’d say.

They always had “just enough “because that’s what they believed. They didn’t need more, because it was enough.

And I lived by this “set rules “for a long time. I never really “made it ” because that’s what everyone told me, and I always “just had enough ” money, because that’s what I believed.

And I was soooo freaking unhappy until I actually figured out how to change my beliefs. And with them, my life!

That proves it. You should NEVER listen to others when they want to tell you how your life should look like.

This is all about YOU! YOU design YOUR dream life.


Don’t Listen to Your Doubts

As much as you should not listen to others, you shouldn’t listen to that nasty inner voice of doubts.

During the process and designing your dream life, you will most probably have thoughts like:

“You will never achieve this!”


“You are stupid doing that; it will never become real!”

or worse…

“Be realistic, girl!”

Ignore these doubts.

They are useless. No, they are even worse, they may be the main reason why you are not achieving what you want.

But I tell you, YOU can achieve everything.

Your inner voice has been anchored in your subconscious mind. And there are two things your subconscious mind hates:

1. change.

2. leaving your comfort zone.

And both you need to do, to get to your BIG dreams.

That’s a fact.

The good thing is, as strong as your subconscious mind is, it is as stupid. So why not just reprogramming it to the success you are after? 

I tell you, gorgeous, you deserve the best life ever, and it’s not hard to really get it.

It’s your conscious decision.

Let Me Introduce; Your Success Persona

Now that you know exactly what you want, and you have a clear picture of your ideal life, your dream life, you need to become the person that is living this life (already).

For this, you need to first think about how a person acts, that is living your dream life. There is an easy exercise you can do.

Take a specific area from your dream life; let’s say you want to be slim and fit and have the body of a fitness model.

I love to use examples of weight loss / having your dream body because I think most of us women can relate to this.

Now think about a person that has a fitness model figure or even works as a fitness model. What do you think is the lifestyle of this person?

  • Is she eating sushi for lunch or sitting at Mc Donald’s?

  • Is she working out in her morning routine or sleeping in till 10 am?

  • Is she going to bed early to be well-rested the next morning or partying all night, drinking too many cocktails?

  • Is she a negative person, or does she have mainly positive and motivational thoughts?

I guess the answers are pretty clear. So you see, it’s not really hard to find out how your success persona acts.

And now, all you need to do is getting into that success persona, and start living her life.

Think of all the characteristics you may need, the people you want to hang out with, and the priorities you will set in your new life.

Become The Person You Want to Be With Visualization

The great thing about this process, it is already triggering the right actions in your subconscious mind.

You already changed, you may don’t feel like it right now, but you will soon realize, that you act differently, that you make different decisions, and that you attract certain people and circumstances into your life.

This is great, and you are now on the way to become that person that is living your dream life.

Pretty exciting, huh?

Now the even better news is, you can skyrocket your results with a very simple law of attraction tool, you might already use. Visualization.

You can consciously live that life, concentrating on the characteristics of this person and use visualization techniques to bring yourself into that state.

To learn more about what visualization really is, how you can use it, and different exercises, you should check out my visualization guide.

When I want to get into my success persona, I love to write 1-2 pages in my journal, where I describe her life, in the present tense.

I then close my eyes and imagine living that life.

It is such a powerful exercise, and you will see changes happing so fast when you do this regularly.

Are You Ready to Take Some Action?

Do you still think this sounds all too good to be true? That you can just go out there and design your dream life?

that you can write down how you want your life to be like, and then become this person?


Think about the quote from Napoleon Hill, I added at the beginning of this post.

hatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve”

This is just how our world works, and it always did.

Let’s have a look at flying, this was just a big dream once, and now we do it all the time.

I can board a plane in London, watch a movie, sleep a few hours, and then wake up in Los Angeles the next day.

If this is possible, how likely do you think it’s possible that you reach your dream life?

I don’t know what your BIG DREAM is, but I think flying, back then in 1903, was a very ambitious goal. And it all started with a dream the Wright brothers had.

But I want to be honest with you. It is, in fact, not easy to become that person that is living your dream life.

It takes a bit more than just writing down how your awesome new life will be. And how you will drink mimosas with the girls, after you shopped your but off all day long, in your favorite city…

This is just dreaming.

Dreaming is good, but the real magic happens when you take action.

You will need 3 key things to manifest your dreams:

  • The right mindset and belief system.
  • The right motivation to change.
  • Taking (inspired) action.

If it were so easy, we would all live in our huge mansions, drive flashy sports cars, and have more money than we could ever spend. That’s for sure.

There is one crucial component to success, which most people are not willing to invest in.

It takes effort.

You actually have to take action, and that’s where most personal growth and law of attraction gurus out there are not telling you the whole picture.

It’s not only wishful thinking, believing, and receiving.

No, you have to take massive action!

Most people are only willing to complain. But change and effort and action are unacceptable to them.

If you are one of them, It is time to change.

Or to leave my page, because I honestly can’t help you then. Your decision, gorgeous. 

If you are ready to change, but you don’t know where to start, then I CAN help you!

Because my bestselling manifestation book will guide you, step by step, through the manifesting process.

This is a great blueprint for you if you struggle with taking action and going that first step forward.

And I know it works, because…

I love getting feedback like this about my book because I know so well how it feels when you finally have this breakthrough. 

It’s so amazing when you are finally able to consciously design that life of your dreams.

So don’t procrastinate on your BIG goals in life, get started today!

By Mia Fox

Author, Certified Transformational Trainer, NLP & Mindset Coach

Hey there! I am Mia Fox, author, manifestation & money mindset coach, and the founder of the SelfMadeLadies online community, where I help women like YOU to overcome your limiting beliefs and taking inspired actions towards your goals, to finally make the Law of Attraction work for you and manifest the life of your dreams.

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